Dress Good

All men should be responsible for how they feel. Wear what you are comfortable in yes! but make sure you dress well. Sometimes what you wear is how a lady with standard will judge you. Have you heard that before?
Some will say, i don't want my lady with any standard but hey man it's good if she's got it even if it's a little.
   All I'm trying to say is "dress well and be confident in whatever you have on"

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Gorgeous!

Dress gorgeously and you will appear really beautiful. No matter what you are wearing, don't forget to feel comfy in that outfit.Let's rock it!!!

                                     
                                 WAYS TO SERVE GOD

When we mention God, most people would wanna just flip to the next page so that they won't be judged by the writer or God himself. Hilarious! God is meant to be your best friend. The one you confide in. You should know that he is faithful and just to forgive your every mistake.The only thing is can you forgive yourself?...
   Anyway, always run to Him whenever you feel you are treading the wrong route. What do you think?
Well, I am going to give you few simple ways to serve this awesome best friend.

1. GIVING: You might say to your self "hell no she just didn't say that" but yes i said so. No matter how little it is try to share it with someone and you will see the difference in your life. After all, He said if you feed those who are hungry you are feeding Him and if you cloth them, then you are clothing Him. Your tithes and offerings are required to build the house of our Lord, in that way, you are giving to God too. I gotcha now didn't I?

2.  WORKING: I  am talking about working in His vineyard. The pastor of the church or the pastor's wife are not the only ones to work for God, you can too. By joining the choir,ushering, prayer band or even the sanitation group. "HUH"?  LOL.. I get that you don't have time but you have to create time my friend, it's good to do something in church. I know you are saying right now, "How can i soil my hands with people's trash"? Don't worry, sometimes you have to soil those beautifully created hands to please God and definitely there's a reward waiting for you.

3. PRAYING: Don't get all creepy now.. Hear me out friends, prayer is the master key, do you know that when you pray you can do wonders even miracles. With faith as little as a mustard seed you can move mountains OH NO YOU HAVEN'T HEARD THAT YEAH? It's SO TRUE!!!! You can heal the sick, you can get an A in your math exam or any exam at all... My point is when you pray you can do mighty things. Even more than super man or the ant man.
Some people don't know how to pray, just open your mouth and say after me
"Lord Jesus, I thank you for everything. Forgive me all my sins. Please fill me and help me to pray. Thank you Lord".
And be rest assured that God will come and fill you.

God bless you.


 LELEMMA.C

Sit Right!

Every lady should always learn to sit the right way. Sometimes, ladies are judged by the way they sit. Do not say i'm used to this friend so i don't have to act. Be yourself yes! But always try to sit in a manner that will not discomfit others. 

I take a walk to the park everyday by 7:00pm in the evening to clear my thought of the dilemma I have found myself. As I sat and watched people walk back and forth my tears will run down my face uncontrollably. I would wipe it off as usual and face the trees so no one will throw a pity party for me.
    Well, I am from the northern part of Nigeria and my grandfather is allowed to marry as many wives as he would love to marry and I am not saying other tribes do not do that but please read on and tell me what you feel....

  My mother is a very beautiful lady, dark, tall and wonderfully shaped. Oh her eyes glowed every time even when she wasn't eating, she was happy, she would make you happy and we all loved to be around her because she was very welcoming and an interesting person to tell stories with. But that's not it....
   My beautiful mother was impregnated while she was growing up. The shame she faced when my grandparents found out, her friends left her because they said bad company corrupts good manners, she was a disgrace to the entire community and she was treated with disdain as someone with a deadly plague.
     Then she was forced to show them the boy that impregnated their daughter without any plans of marrying her...
     'Adams was a nonchalant person, very handsome and tall I must say' I soliloquised
     'That's the guy papa'  'This dirty looking boy ehn Emilia'?
     'When do you intend to marry my daughter'? Papa asked Adams
    'I am not ready for marriage' He blurted out
    'Emilia you see the kind of boy you fell for? This boy that doesn't even love you or care about your welfare, this boy that can't take up his responsibility?" You are a disgrace he told Emilia" By now people had gathered around them from the community so it was an open secret. Emilia cried back with shame cursing him bitterly.
      After nine months, she delivered a baby girl, a very beautiful one as that and called her Mariam meaning bitterness... As I grew older I realized that when my mother would be muttering things at night like she was praying, she was actually crying. She would cry every night and this man that is my father won't still marry her? She got a job after twelve years and left the house thereby leaving me too as I was asked to live with my grandfather and his wives and children. She left me because she was ashamed to put me there in public and be ridiculed by fellow women or scared of not being married again since she was a second hand material now. But I know she loves me very much.
       Anyway, she got married after three years of working and the man asked her not to bring me to their matrimonial home so I still have to live with my grandfather. He didn't have money to put me in a school so I was also towing that line and decided against it. My mother's siblings also have babies out of wedlock and I know the pain and shame they go through. There should be a law against men that impregnate women without marrying them in Nigeria. There should be child support or a jail sentence.



WHY DO THESE MEN DESTROY OUR LADIES AND SAY THEY WONT MARRY THEM?
Look at the pain they go through.
The hurt.
The sacrifice so that the child will live.
The shame.
The child also goes through such pain knowing her parents are not together.

This was sent in by an anonymous so I decided to let the world know. Please leave your comments. Thanks