Thursday, September 8, 2016

SUCRÉ NOVEMBER 1

                                SucrΓ© November

                                         PART 1

This is based on a true life happening. Their names have been changed in the course of the story. By no means should anyone refer to the persons involved. This is a story to help individuals learn from their mistakes.



As I look out the window in the beautiful street of South Carolina, my dilemma rushes down like a flowing stream, I blink the anger and fear it brings away. "How adorable are the leaves in autumn, they fall to the ground sparsely flying in different directions. I stare at the withered nature. The rays of the sun blinds me as I try to watch it create an illusion. "I will play with these yellow, orange and red leaves someday when Mitchelle is grown" I said to myself.
  
                      Bolanle had a sweet side, his rock hard muscles that could have been sculptured out of granite made every girl sway in his direction. He helped me with the dishes as I made pancakes. He would be firm this minute and soft another, if you were not strong, you would rock more than one "yes" box before realizing you were acting out of a desperate woman's fantasy. He was a perfect ten to every woman. When I met him, he was not the type I wanted, I looked at him as one with no other vision other than chasing women. So I gave him a piece of my venom but he didn't give up. He would come all the way to Florida every weekend from Auburn. Soon he proved to me that he wasn't anything like that. We talked and soon became inseparable. He spoke with my parents in Africa and met my friends, I only knew his best friend but we were in love so it didn't matter because he said once I was done with my project, we would get married. How excited I was to tell my friends to pick out their dresses so that we could make final picks.
                  Few months into the relationship my slender and curvy self started bloating and eating a lot. He told me to start going to the gym of which I agreed then I noticed that anytime I did long hours, I would feel faint and slightly dizzy. He will buy me roses and take me for a walk on the beach both of us holding hands and laughing so hard. If you knew us, you would attest to our love. I called it "forever love". He was my bae (  before anyone else). Early on Monday morning, I was vomiting uncontrollably,  I was literally shaking and my room mate Lucia who was scared to death rushed me to the hospital out of fear. They confirmed I was pregnant and three months gone. I didn't know if death was an option but I wanted to die. My parents were not wealthy and they live in Africa. I went to my apartment but the tears won't stop rolling down as the pain hit me so hard.
                    I called Bolanle immediately, he came over and without a care, he got me the necessary medication and stocked my fridge with fruits and healthy foods. I was glad he was going to stay strong with me. He told me to keep it, that he was a proud father of my unborn child and I should get ready to join his family. I danced for joy and told my father to come over that I had something important to tell him as he had a meeting in the United States which enabled him to pay for the ticket and travel down. 

Wednesday, August 31, 2016

Signs To Show You Are A Great Partner

Being in a relationship is never easy. It requires responsibility, dedication and honesty. I need to tell you that your partneri s really lucky if you are able to relate yourself to these things on our list.

1. You are always there when your partner needs you.

2. You might not be your partners everything. But you have everything wants and needs.

3. You don't need special days or magazine suggestions to make little surprises. Your relationship always has that excitement.


4. You, of course, have problems in your relationship. The good thing is that you are honest and brave enough to speak about them.

5. Words are unnecessary. You understand each other, even without speaking.

6. Listen first and think before speakin! You know that this is the golden rule.

7. You trust each other and it's not a problem when your partner doesn't respond to your texts immediately.

8. You are in love and you have no intentions of hiding it.

9. Your partner matters to you. Maybe this is the most important thing, beyond everything.

10. No tactics, No strategies. You live your your relationship as you feel it.

11. You do not try to change your partner. You love your partner with his/her differences.




12. Everyone needs some alone time. You know this and respect that.

13. It's normal to be jealous. You are honest about it and try to solve it before it becomes a problem.

14. Now and the future is more important than the past.

15. You knowt hat your partner is not a thing you have. Sharing your lives together is a thing you have.

16. Everyone lies. It's okay, as long as you try to understand each other.

17. You are able to say "we" without fearing it.

18. You don't have to do anything to have fun. It's always when you are together.

Spice up your relationship and have a healthy lifestyle.... Love right 😍😍😍😘😘 To be in love feels good and right. Everyone shouldh ave the right to feel it. I can assure you that it's a wonderful feeling that I would always fall into. You know sometimes when you are in love, you wish you will never come out. πŸ˜πŸ˜†

You laugh on your own when you remember him/her.


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Monday, August 29, 2016

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Thursday, May 5, 2016

Complete love


Love is truly a beautiful thing...
I was willing to do anything...
I remember last November when there was no contender
We had it all planned out...
Yes! Still smiling to myself
You will lift me on your muscular shoulder and spin me; happy with the fear it brings to my heart.
Our thundering laughter all night...
I am willing to go the length to feel you breathe again.
I would ride for you, slow whine for you even touch my toes for you...
I surrendered to you.
But then you used to love me
The rain used to fall
The sun used to shine
The honey was always sweet...
I will always love your love.

Inspired by: Seyi Shay (right now)
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Wednesday, April 27, 2016

WHAT TO DO ON A FIRST DATE

In general people tend to date or marry someone with whom they have common characteristics or temperament. Dating is the process of spending quality time with prospective partners to become acquainted. Dates can take place in groups or between two individuals.

Free Mind Set
You must have an open mind irrespective of what you have heard about the person or what the general knowledge of the person is in terms of ethnicity, religion, exposure and friends. A lot of people judge individuals by what they think of them. This can be very misleading.

Choice of Location
The venue of the date should be a place you can afford at least a cup of ice cream or a drink. Whatever location you choose must be conducive without distractions.

Dress Code
There is no law that specifies what you should wear but having known your location, you should wear something that suits the location. If it's an eatery, the dress code can be warm and cool but if it's an evening date then you could go all out to wear your dinner gown for ladies and for the men, your suit/blazer will do.

Demands
Couples ought to be moderate in all their doings.

It has always been misunderstood that all women know is "I WANT THIS, GIVE ME THAT" but the truth is it is an individual thing not every woman is a grabber unlike the popular opinion.
It is not advisable to demand on the first date because it increases the suspicion of an ulterior motive which is not love. Also avoid eating what you are not familiar with just to create the impression of sophistication.

Stability
You have to be stable. In most cases we believe that first impressions can sustain us in a relationship but it doesn't happen that way.

Temperament
You must not try to flare at any slight sign of misbehaviour from your date.Consider his/her background, values, environment and be tolerant.
Don't feel like senior to junior. In making choices or decisions ask for your partner's opinion.

Be Careful
Don't jump into conclusions about whether the person will be fit for a wife/husband, a fling or a bed mate. Seduction may work for a shallow sex predicted fling. But a true lifetime relationship should be based on careful character assessment.

Love Language
This is the special emotional attachment in us that springs up love and comfort. We have five love languages namely;
1. Words of affirmation
2. Acts of service
3. Receiving gifts
4. Physical touch
5. Spending quality time

Prefix and Status
Don't start by letting your partner know how well to do you are and also don't start complaining about how poor you are either. Just be plain and natural.

Note that: Asking questions and making suggestions in a date endangers relaxation and openness.

I hope these few tips will help you with your new date.

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Wednesday, April 6, 2016

IS GOD ANGRY WITH NIGERIA

IS GOD ANGRY WITH NIGERIA?

When my friend said this I thought to myself this will be an interesting topic for adorablefaces to ponder on.

The darkness that has enveloped my beautiful nation NIGERIA. The scorching heat that is biting hard with no mercy. Last night was no exception. "I don't want to experience another night like this oo" aunty Nkiru said soliloquizing as she wiped the sweat dripping down her face, her cotton singlet was soaked. "Kai this change" she said hands akimbo

I and Bolaji get to work by 7:15 am everyday but today happened to be a different ball game o" Dayo listened attentively
That's how we woke up at our usual 5am and thought as usual we will get a bus to the office, hmmm my brother that's how we waited yet no bus till 9am. What is this country turning into ehn? Then finally one good Samaritan came along and stopped for us to enter. People called in to the radio station we listened to to complain of fuel scarcity and traffic.

Someone said if the heat doesn't affect you, the traffic will and if that doesn't do the trick...the "no fuel" will...!

This country needs to ask the necessary questions.

FAQ
What are we doing wrong?
Should we continue to support the government?
Should we pray some more?

Let's figure out what our country is not doing right.

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Friday, February 26, 2016